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03-30-2010, 04:40 AM | #1 |
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There is this girl I really got to know and like recently ,just so happens we were in the same chat room at the same time(and yes I confirmed it wasn't some creepy 40 year old dude lol) ,and apparently my older brother(21) had spoken to her before and really liked the girl(shes really sweet and nice) turns out she is 14 going on 15, Im 16 going on 17.She seems serious about us starting a relationship but Im in Cali she is in Oklahoma plus we just met today even though I do really like the girl ,and she already got me to throw around the L word (which I don't regret cuz I really like her) but she seems kinda clingy .Also I don't tell my mother everything about my life I wanted to tell her about this but every time I try "hey mom Im gunna have a girlfriend in Oklahoma that I just met in a chat room" I lose the nerve to tell her. Is this all too much trouble or should I go with my heart?
so many questions: -Are we/is she rushing things? -Is it not worth the long distance relationship at my age? -Is she too young for me? -Would it be messed up to my brother? -How on earth do I tell my mother about her?(Should I tell her at all?) ~~~Any suggestions or answers are really appreciated ~~~
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03-30-2010, 04:49 AM | #2 |
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03-30-2010, 04:49 AM | #3 |
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Dude I feel your pain...been there done that but without the net. In my day we communicated via that archaic device called a house phone with actually a cord attatched. I am 33 and I can you from experience that you will fall "inlove" a thousand times B4 you find the "ONE"....anways to sum it all up....THIS IS NOT GOING TO WORK...not being mean, just rather tell you straight up rather blow smoke up ya arse and get ya hopes up for what could turn out to be disaster. Play the field my friend and have fun....i was 29 B4 I found the ONE and got married....in this situation its more benificial to think with your mind and not your heart...IMHO
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03-30-2010, 04:52 AM | #4 |
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03-30-2010, 05:05 AM | #5 |
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V-Cmdr speaks the truth, I'm 25, and I'm 100% with his opinion on this. Your young bro, she's younger. Both of you guys should enjoy and live the lives you have independantly, you've got alooot more ahead of you, and there will be waaaay more better opportunities, no matter what you may think, even if you dont agree, just trying to save you some stress.
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03-30-2010, 05:08 AM | #6 |
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Dude do not date this girl! You will be 18 soon enough and then there is an akward cross state pedophilia thing going on if the relationship turns physical. Your 21 yr old brother should never admit to talking to 14 yr old girls online either EVER! It doesn't matter how COOL this girl is, I dont care if this other girl has beer flavored nipples, date a girl your own age or older. She is in Oklahoma for gods sake, you cant be doing long distance or Skyping every other day. Please man dont be me and think your in Love at 16, your in LIKE. Its easy to fall in Like, dont get confused. Try it out for a while. No harm in chatting right now, learn how to talk to girls first and find a girl you go to school with that thinks your remotely funny and next time she laughs at something you say ask her out to a movie. Trial and error amigo trial and error, dont let woman get to you they are still the weaker sex...
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03-30-2010, 05:16 AM | #7 |
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03-30-2010, 06:43 AM | #8 |
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Stick to the toys.
God, I wish someone would have given me that advice when I was that age.
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03-30-2010, 06:54 AM | #9 |
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03-30-2010, 06:56 AM | #10 |
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My GOD I remember being in love at sixteen (now I would be one of the aforementioned 40 y/old creepy guys).
Fine. talk with her and start a relationship if you want. I think the two of you are going to have to agree to keep it platonic and see other people though! Make this a soul-mate talk about anything relationship so that you have someone to communicate with and learn from. Now: to specifically answer your bullet points: 1) Yes, you're rushing things. 2) The relationship is worth it to some degree, but if you're talking exclusive relationship and marriage it isn't and you're going to be really hurt in a year or so. This is a powerfully started relationship that isn't quite romantic...but is a hell of a lot more than friends. Nuture it and it will be rewarding in it's own way. 3) She's not too young for you since you're a year apart and live in different states. Really-she goes to a High School just like you do, Dude. 4) If your brother is 21 and normal it isn't messed up. Don't worry about him at all, he'll probably be worried about his baby brother. 5) Since you two aren't running away to Vegas to start a litter of little Tankers, she's a lifelong soul-mate friend and I don't think it matters whether or not you tell your Mom, unless you are talking internet chat room naughty talk with an underage girl...then she may want to know before the police do so she can give you an a55 whooping. You have plenty of friends your Mom doesn't know because you tend to see them at work or school only, this lady should be no different in the beginning. Keep yer heart on yer sleeve, but don't miss opportunities for rewarding relationships near home because of cyber talk, that's the equivalent of watching Star Trek instead of doing volunteer work so that you can experience the human condition. And Youtube Brad Paisley's "Letter To Me", you just brought back my own HS memories. Later! Quote:
There is this girl I really got to know and like recently ,just so happens we were in the same chat room at the same time(and yes I confirmed it wasn't some creepy 40 year old dude lol) ,and apparently my older brother(21) had spoken to her before and really liked the girl(shes really sweet and nice) turns out she is 14 going on 15, Im 16 going on 17.She seems serious about us starting a relationship but Im in Cali she is in Oklahoma plus we just met today even though I do really like the girl ,and she already got me to throw around the L word (which I don't regret cuz I really like her) but she seems kinda clingy .Also I don't tell my mother everything about my life I wanted to tell her about this but every time I try "hey mom Im gunna have a girlfriend in Oklahoma that I just met in a chat room" I lose the nerve to tell her. Is this all too much trouble or should I go with my heart?
so many questions: -Are we/is she rushing things? -Is it not worth the long distance relationship at my age? -Is she too young for me? -Would it be messed up to my brother? -How on earth do I tell my mother about her?(Should I tell her at all?) ~~~Any suggestions or answers are really appreciated ~~~ |
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