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11-18-2008, 09:10 PM | #191 |
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I wouldn't put much hope in trying to explain it to her. That implies that you hope to convince her that your appreciation of Playboy magazine does not reflect on her, that she should not feel threatened by it, etc. That's not going to happen.
Her reaction was an emotional one; you can't reason it out and hope that she'll see the light. You can apologize, ditch the collection, and go from there. She might forgive you, but she's not going to come around to your way of thinking about Playboy or agree to some sort of compromise. Regarding the bigger issue, only you know the kind of relationship you have with your GF. If it's basically great except for this hang up about Playboy, I'd say concede to her insecurities and ditch the Playboys (all of them). However, if she's the controlling type and this episode is indicative of bigger problems with the relationship (i.e. if you find yourself doing a tripwire act to stay in her good graces) then it may be time to rethink things. Good luck! |
11-18-2008, 09:12 PM | #192 |
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They're probably changing the places they hide their stash,this thread could cause unusual porn paranoia
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11-18-2008, 09:16 PM | #193 |
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So many replies....
If you are honest with her, it shouldn't be a problem. Honesty, she should have known about them from you before she found them and jumped to conclusions. Articles or not, because you didn't bring it to her first, what else was she supposed to think? Good Luck |
11-18-2008, 09:21 PM | #194 |
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In general I agree with your second thought, however, one should not have to trade one happiness for another. One should be able to have their cake and eat it too.
But yeah I do agree a living person is more important than a magazine full of art (depending on the person that is). |
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11-18-2008, 09:26 PM | #195 |
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True but I also think you can be in a serious relationship and able to enjoy the things in life that you like. No one should take that away from you. |
11-18-2008, 09:30 PM | #196 |
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You can be in a relationship and enjoy things you love....but when your in a relationship its not all about you anymore.....If I was him Id leave the porn behind....although I never watch or read it. If I cant touch it then F it...... Last edited by spacemonkeymafia; 11-18-2008 at 09:51 PM.. |
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11-18-2008, 09:34 PM | #197 |
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If hes GF doesnt like porn...whats the big deal? I smoked Weed buI love her and want her to be happy. If his GF doesnt like Porn and he wants to be with her....he needs to decide which is more important.
You can be in a relationship and enjoy things you love....but when your in a relationship its not all about you anymore.....If I was him Id leave the porn behind....although I never watch or read it. If I cant touch it then F it...... I guess only he can decide what is best for him. We can give him advice till we have carpal tunnel syndrome but in the end he will choose what is most important. |
11-18-2008, 09:41 PM | #198 |
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11-18-2008, 09:41 PM | #199 |
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Just tell her that if she was half as attractive as the women in the magazine you wouldn't have to look at them... j/k
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11-18-2008, 09:42 PM | #200 |
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you werent busted ,unless caught in the act
p.s. behind and underneith the dresser is the spot.just make sure if you take the bottom drawer out that its not a bust |
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