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04-22-2010, 07:16 PM | #1 |
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I just lost it today. I had a huge blow up with my mother. Not only did I blow up I cursed the bitch!
Due to personal and professional set back, I moved back home. I"ve never had a warm relationship with my mother. Ever. This latest dustup was a small issue that mushroomed into another confrontation. It always is like this. I try to avoid them. We are both strong willed and push each others buttons. My own father once said you could be 70 and she will still treat you like a little child. Just obey her. He gives in to her instead of confrontations. My mother is a harpie! Her constant stream of concerns and criticism never ceases. I guess this is how she shows love? I can't live up to her expectations. How can I? My hair is too long. My boots are grimy. My joes are hated. My car has a dent. I have a blemish on my face. My clothes are old. She threw away my clothes twice. When I was a kid, she reccommended to my doc I should get growth hormone to make me grow taller. Her constant invectiveness is wearing me down. I have high blood pressure and low self-esteem. I had confrontations that led to an inch of me assualting her. Move away? When I was on my own, I still got the stream of critiscisms. I walk on egg shells everyday. I can't be my authentic self for fear of another confronatation. I can't enjoy my interests and hobbies. I can't go out without a snide remark about not being able to meet a nice girl. I can't enjoy my favourite foods. She's a fucking bitch! I need help! |
04-22-2010, 07:32 PM | #2 |
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04-22-2010, 07:34 PM | #3 |
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wow man you seemed pissed about your mom and not trying to be a dick or anything but if you want to get out of this situation do the following:
get a job find an apartment move out idk thats what id do
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04-22-2010, 07:37 PM | #4 |
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I can relate to some of what you go through. My mother was always harder on me because I was the only boy and the oldest(well those are the reasons I tell myself). She let my sister get away with murder. I had to distance myself from her. Ive been on my own since I was 17 and its only since my son was born that me and her can have a civil convertsation. I love her and always will but we cant be around eachother too long.
Maybe you have to do the same,limit your interaction with her. I think people need to get over the notion that just because someone is your reletive,you have to have a relationship with them,some relatives needs to be cut off. I wish my wife would do this,she always say she will but never stick to it. |
04-22-2010, 07:38 PM | #5 |
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take it day by day, i never thought i would get away from my ex and her place, but i did. things will get better.
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04-22-2010, 07:39 PM | #6 |
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Sounds like an awful experience. I can't imagine what it's like, though. I've had occasional arguments with my mom, but they were always pretty small and never anything major, and I've otherwise always had a pretty good relationship with her. I could never imagine cursing her, either.
Reading posts like this on more than a few boards in recent years makes me realize how fortunate I've been to have had the parents I have. |
04-22-2010, 07:39 PM | #7 |
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Great advice, as soon as millions of new jobs appear and the unemployment rate drops below 22%, I'm sure he'll get right on it.
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04-22-2010, 07:46 PM | #8 |
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Theres ahuge difference between an ex and ones mother. Even if you physically get awy from your mother it still bothers you if she is that critical of you.
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04-22-2010, 07:48 PM | #9 |
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I recommend dating a single mom with a young child. That will make your mom go bananas.
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04-22-2010, 07:49 PM | #10 |
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