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04-21-2010, 03:04 AM | #1 |
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So I had explained to yall some of what is going on in my life. But let me give you the honest to God lowdown, because I am hammered and I want an honest opinion,
Nikki and I lived together for five years. First relationship that Ive been friends first (without banging her and just sticking together and trying) and realized I wanted to stick around. This is a different story for me, and pretty much when it all went down I realized I wanted to marry this girl and make some babys. So I have now set the stage. For 5 years we lived together. The first three were great, the last two not so much. The last couple years of our relationship all I did was get drunk every other day and play Warcraft. Now realize this: my folks sit around all day, do nothing, and stay together. This is what I have always known and come to expect. So when me and Nikki get to arguing about my douchebaggery, I think to myself 'She will never leave, this is a relationship, and she will get over it." Not so true. So she got sick of it and walked out last May. I came back and tried to fix it, and we were off and on for a few months, but then she decided the grass could possibly be more fertile elsewhere and found somebody else. She didnt have the guts to tell yours truly and I found out the hard way. Oh well. It sucked for me. Now Im over it. I f**ked up hard, and I realized she wasnt going to put up with my BS forever, Flash forward, Lost style, to present day. In fact, she txtd me about Lost. That was our show. We went from there. In one of my angry rage-filled texts I warned her that she had made a mistake, she would end up hating her douchebag boyfriend, and come back to me. Only I promised I wouldnt be there. Well, I screwed up. I am so deeply in love with this girl I cannot hold back. Take this in mind......I am 30 years old. I have dated plenty of psychopaths and halfway normal chicks that I am just not interested. I have played the field long enough to know what I want. And all I want is her. We just CLICK. And I F**KED IT UP. So we started chatting again recently. She hates her new boyfriend. She is sucked into a lease and doesnt know how to bail out of it. But the bottom line is......she knows its her and me til death, and she f**ked up. So Im trying to figure out how to bail her out. I dont know where Im going with this but...... Am I an idiot? And if not......how the hell do we get her out of this?!? If perhaps you think Im a moron, I have no problem inserting the rest of the story for your convenience. I thought I would distribute the general idea and let you form your own opinion. Obviously I know where my heart is set already. Perhaps I am looking for encouragement, and I am definitely looking for lease-break options. So HissTankers, I respect you lot for being pretty much my age and having pretty much my same state of mind, and any sort of opinions and advice will be greatly appreciated. Because at this point in my life, that girl makes me want to be a better man. And I will do everything to make it work. Take it as you will. =) |
04-21-2010, 03:15 AM | #2 |
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Dude, if she's the one to carry your baby one day, what's an f'n lease?
Go get her back!
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04-21-2010, 03:20 AM | #3 |
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Its amusing because I have two ex gfs that I talk to on a usual basis, and they both tell me the same thing. Go get her. I just wanted the guys opinion yknow? |
04-21-2010, 03:24 AM | #4 |
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Hey man I would pursue her... it sounds like she might be the one.
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04-21-2010, 03:40 AM | #5 |
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04-21-2010, 03:45 AM | #6 |
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well have her sing the lease over to who ever she lives with or tell her to sublet it out. or just break it pack up and leave.
the heart wants what it wants. |
04-21-2010, 04:03 AM | #7 |
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Ysee shes living with her d-bag new bf now, she wants out, and its not that easy. Shes already bound to leave and told him. If she moves out, hes leaving too, and they both get stuck paying til the landlord fills the apartment. I am researching the options to get her out of there. But I am definately NOT moving into a place where they both lived. That would be too much for me to handle. So we need a loophole or something. She can stay with me but she cant get stuck with rent where she is not staying.
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04-21-2010, 05:23 AM | #8 |
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As far as the lease goes there are non profit groups that can get her out with a buyout cheaper than full rent. My friend seperated from a guy and had to leave. it worked out.
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04-21-2010, 07:19 AM | #9 |
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I don't know how to break the lease... But i hope it works out for you two...
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04-21-2010, 08:14 AM | #10 |
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dude...u "R" an idiot... but you also have a real heart and she knows it still pumps for her.... so go "yojoe" all out for her.. seriously dude... u r a real american hero...er guy... you guys show that you dont take shit all around the world..and you cant win your old girlfriend back??
start with sending her some flowers...send her some lunch one day with a note, pay her boyfriend a visit and tell him you'll do the lease and he can choke on it. ...c'mon dude... u gotta bail her out.... do anything!!! we tankers are all with you! |
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