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08-26-2009, 11:51 AM | #41 |
Cobra Viper
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I want to share this with my fellow tankers because if I don't get it out I am going to put my fist through a wall. Last October me and my at the time girlfriend were having problems and she decided to move out. At the time I told her it was a mistake and I stand by my call, we have since reconciled and are engaged to be married on May 15, 2010, and yes I got the Ring from Jared's. Well, when she moved out I found she had gotten a apartment with her sister, someone who used to routinely hit her and scream at her. In a normal household all it would take is for Samantha to haul off and knock the Hell out of her and she would stop, the problem is her mother always took her sister's side. When I heard she moved in with this troll I told her it was a mistake. And when I further found out my fiancee's name was the only one on the lease I told her that her sister and her boyfriend would screw her over. I had actually heard that her sister was already talking about moving out a week after she moved in. Well to cut to the chase we ended up back together and instead of terminating the lease or making him sign on to it she just let it stay the way it was despite my objections. Well she helped them until they got a roommate. Well, Last month the boyfriend lost his job and they waited almost a week before he told her and then they waited until Samantha was at work to tell her that he had lost his job and they were moving back with her mother and that they basically weren't even going to try to stay and help pay for the apartment that they had basically talked her into. Sh even offered to help them with rent until they could get on their feet or until the lease ended at the end of October. I just had to tell someone because this is frustrating and causing both of us, her more so than me a great deal of stress.
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08-26-2009, 11:57 AM | #42 |
Cobra Viper
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I second that. Your marrying into the family of your future wife. you need to sever them off asap.
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08-26-2009, 08:40 PM | #43 |
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Location: Manassas, Virginia
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Yeah, simple fact of the matter is that sometimes it's perfectly alright to break with family...despite all the crap people feed you about blood being thicker than water. I have two sisters that I refuse to tolerate more than two times per year. Amazingly no one else can stand them either and no one is willing to adopt my basic attitude because they're fixated on the whole "B..bu..bu..but they're family!"
Also, just beat the crap out of the boyfriend...violence doesn't solve anything but it can give you a warm and tingly feeling. I would like to thank you guys for all the support, it is an expensive lesson for Samantha to learn but she seems to be wising up to her family. |
08-27-2009, 02:18 PM | #44 |
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Do not listen to anyone that says its okay to let the boyfriend tell your landlord that your girlfriend might sub lease. That is the single dumbest advice I have ever seen. Unless they have seen her contract and no she can do this the advice is just wrong!
Most apartment complexes (99%) do no allow the tenant to sublease on their own. They don't allow this for the simple reason that they then no longer can control what tenants move in and most apartments will not allow felons to move in. So she can be in violation of her lease agreement and still end up paying, getting sued and ruining her credit because a few people on Hisstank told you it was okay for you to egg on the boyfriend. The boyfriend seems to have done all this premeditated and he knows that she cannot sublease.....just plain evil. If it was that easy to get out of a lease, good lord everyone would do it...... want to get out sub-lease and get kicked out......... just plain silly thinking! Now what she can do is bring in a roommate and add her to the lease. Either way you should have someone with knowledge look at the lease for her if you are not sure how to proceed. Furthermore don't humiliate and degrade her about her family. That is just wrong...... honestly if you are saying things like that already...... you guys wont be together that much longer. Good Luck... One last thing..........ANGER MANAGEMENT might be in your future. |
08-27-2009, 08:29 PM | #45 |
Chocolate Donut Thief
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08-28-2009, 02:31 AM | #46 |
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Manassas, Virginia
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Do not listen to anyone that says its okay to let the boyfriend tell your landlord that your girlfriend might sub lease. That is the single dumbest advice I have ever seen. Unless they have seen her contract and no she can do this the advice is just wrong!
Most apartment complexes (99%) do no allow the tenant to sublease on their own. They don't allow this for the simple reason that they then no longer can control what tenants move in and most apartments will not allow felons to move in. So she can be in violation of her lease agreement and still end up paying, getting sued and ruining her credit because a few people on Hisstank told you it was okay for you to egg on the boyfriend. The boyfriend seems to have done all this premeditated and he knows that she cannot sublease.....just plain evil. If it was that easy to get out of a lease, good lord everyone would do it...... want to get out sub-lease and get kicked out......... just plain silly thinking! Now what she can do is bring in a roommate and add her to the lease. Either way you should have someone with knowledge look at the lease for her if you are not sure how to proceed. Furthermore don't humiliate and degrade her about her family. That is just wrong...... honestly if you are saying things like that already...... you guys wont be together that much longer. Good Luck... One last thing..........ANGER MANAGEMENT might be in your future. Oh and one last thing, I don't need anger management because I am angry about something I have every right to be angry about. |
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