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11-18-2008, 09:47 PM | #201 |
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If hes GF doesnt like porn...whats the big deal? I smoked Weed buI love her and want her to be happy. If his GF doesnt like Porn and he wants to be with her....he needs to decide which is more important.
You can be in a relationship and enjoy things you love....but when your in a relationship its not all about you anymore.....If I was him Id leave the porn behind....although I never watch or read it. If I cant touch it then F it...... how does not liking porn equate to insecurities? that's a ridiculous conclusion to come to, and exhibits a complete lack of understanding of the complexities of a person and what they may or may not like about something. you can't create your idea of her and then analyze it as if it is her and actually think you are making a sound argument. |
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11-18-2008, 09:50 PM | #202 |
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how does not liking porn equate to insecurities? that's a ridiculous conclusion to come to, and exhibits a complete lack of understanding of the complexities of a person and what they may or may not like about something. you can't create your idea of her and then analyze it as if it is her and actually think you are making a sound argument.
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11-18-2008, 09:51 PM | #203 |
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How was that uncalled for? I wasnt insulting him for his beliefs in any way shape or form,I was simply curious.
Whether porn is right or wrong is simply up to the individual,you only need to read the full thread to see the broad range of views on the subject. And i'd dispute porn being the cause of relationships to fall apart, maybe some remote examples but I think if you dug deeper you'd find much bigger issues caused the split. Take psychology bud... You might learn something... And I did read the WHOLE thing.... up to page 20...
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11-18-2008, 09:51 PM | #204 |
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Everyone’s going to have their opinion, and it’s this dudes problem to work out not ours. Some of us will not put up with stupid BS in a relationship, some of us will never have to (either because we find the "right woman" or never have a "real" relationship"), some of us will bend over backwards become emasculated by our women and despite them treating us like crap and making us dress up in furry bunny costumes we will continue to stay with them no matter how many other dudes they sleep with... Who’s right and who’s wrong? I have no idea. In the end my opinions are just that, MY opinions. Just like everybody elses opinions are their own. And you know what they say about opinions right? They’re just like assholes, everyone has one and a lot of them are crappy :-P |
11-18-2008, 10:03 PM | #205 |
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It's completely up to you on how you view porn in your life and in a relationship. I use porn in my dating life compared to my single life but I never threw any magazines away because I'm a cheap bastard.
I had to laugh, I was seeing this one girl and I came home to find all the nude parts cut out of one of my Penthouses. I laughed my ass off. She'd also throw any dirty magazine (whether it was mine or not) out the window of the house I lived in. |
11-18-2008, 10:31 PM | #206 |
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how does not liking porn equate to insecurities? that's a ridiculous conclusion to come to, and exhibits a complete lack of understanding of the complexities of a person and what they may or may not like about something. you can't create your idea of her and then analyze it as if it is her and actually think you are making a sound argument.
Now, if he spends an inordinate amount of money on his hobby, or if it is having some adverse effect on their life, then okay...there's an issue. But for her to be that upset simply because he keeps a stash of Playboys, that her problem and not his. Of course, on some issues you are better off just yielding. My friend at work recently deleted his MySpace account because his wife was freaked out over it (the same guy subscribes to Playboy with no drama btw). |
11-18-2008, 10:32 PM | #207 |
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11-18-2008, 10:34 PM | #208 |
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Well, I tried giving her flowers, chocolates and a dinner. None of them worked to get her to open up. So, I'm stuck now. Don't know what next other than to wait.
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11-18-2008, 10:38 PM | #209 |
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Bro, you gotta have your stash bottom line. How bout telling her that having your secret stash is saving her from a v-d or worse. Sometimes it's the stash which seperates the men from the animals!!!
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11-18-2008, 10:39 PM | #210 |
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