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03-28-2012, 01:52 PM | #11 |
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The bride approves but the groom doesn't.
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03-28-2012, 01:57 PM | #12 |
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Why doesn't the groom approve?
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03-28-2012, 01:59 PM | #13 |
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Well sounds like the marriage is off to a good start.....
Just drop the transexual out of the equation, that's irrelevant (or it should be and if it's not, then that's an issue not to be dealt with here). It's between the bride and the groom to make the guest list, no one else should have influence. If the bride wants someone but the groom doesn't, there should be a compromise so both sides are happy. If the only reason the groom doesn't these people there is because they are transexuals, then the groom is being a jerk (I was going to use stronger language but decided not to). Now if it's a personality issue, one of the guests and the groom just don't get along, then the bride should acknowledge that and tell these people they aren't going to be invited. But that can lead to issues further along in the marriage when have to interact with that group. If it's that important to the bride, end of the day, you suck it up.
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03-28-2012, 02:04 PM | #14 |
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You should let the bride invite them, but you should also invite your own transsexual friends that are the reverse of the bride's friends to balance things out.
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03-28-2012, 02:05 PM | #15 |
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Frankly, the bigger issue here is how the bride and groom deal with making decisions like this.
They need to decide as a couple, what's most important here. Is it the feelings of the bride? The feelings of the groom? The comfort of the proposed guests? The comfort of the already invited guests? Is the ceremony religious, and if so, should the decision be based on the beliefs they hold about worship and who should and shouldn't participate, or about the greater comfort of all of their friends and acquaintences? Whatever the criteria for making the decision, they need to make it in unison, together. The decision needs to be based on mutual respect, and a decision the bride and groom make together, based on what is most important to the two of them.
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03-28-2012, 02:07 PM | #16 |
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I think that if they meet the Miss Universe entry criteria, they should totally be invited.
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03-28-2012, 02:08 PM | #17 |
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I know this may sound rather strange,but what would you guys do if your relative from the bride's side has some Transexual friends and keep insisting that you invite them (the transexuals) to your wedding?
You made the opening statement sound as if the bride didn't know the transsexuals. So, if the groom has issues with transsexuals (the actual uninvited guests or the lifestyle), then the wife should make the compromise, since she doesn't know them. The trannys should be told not to come. |
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03-28-2012, 02:09 PM | #18 |
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03-28-2012, 02:14 PM | #19 |
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Like Derek said, it should be a couple decision by the bride and groom. And if this is the way they approach issues, it's not going to be a great marriage. If the groom is upset because of prejudice, then suck it up.
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03-28-2012, 02:16 PM | #20 |
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I think it depends on what the groom's hesitation is over inviting the bride's friends. I think if the groom's only problem with the bride's friends is that they are transgender then the groom should do his best to just get over it and make his future wife happy. Is being transgender really that big of a deal? Is it the only issue here?
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