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08-04-2008, 11:18 PM | #21 |
Tucker did it!!
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she has custody of our oldest son which as soon as i can afford it i'm going to be contesting custody and don't feel bad for me i've got two kids that i love to death (its not my fault there mom is screwed up.
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08-04-2008, 11:23 PM | #22 |
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Because people with kid(s) are not as desirable as people without kid(s), regardless of how attractive they are too. But that is just me.
Personally, I don't find it attractive or anything potential with a person who already has kid(s). To me its just added baggage. No offense playboy! Just my two-cents. |
08-04-2008, 11:31 PM | #23 |
Tucker did it!!
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no offense taken i can see that point.
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08-04-2008, 11:32 PM | #24 |
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Why not try and find a girl with a child as well. Now you both have something in common and the kids can play with each other.
Yeah man, you and anyone that has a child has it tough, for all the reasons stated. Most people want to start there own family. Though if it makes you feel better a buddy of mine married a women with 2 kids so you never know. you can't really fault women for not wanting to deal with it. It doesn't mean it sucks. I for one would not deal with a women that had children, but there are 6 billion people on the planet so I am sure eventually you will be okay. Generally people have to take what they are offering. If you are brad pitt, you get angelina jolie, if you are tom arnold you don't. If you are smart, you gravitate towards intellectuals. I guess you have to find what you are about and look for a woman that exhibits the same kind of characteristics. |
08-04-2008, 11:53 PM | #25 |
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Alot of people simply don't want to take care of someone elses kids. I don't date women who already have children because even though I do want kids, I don't want someone elses kids.
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08-05-2008, 12:51 AM | #26 |
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Man I know you gotta have it hard with the twins. My brother has twins boys, yet he has a wife to help.
To me, if a woman is not willing to take you the way you are, with knowing what comes with you (your kids), then she ant worth it. I dont know if this is going to far and I dont know if you do or not, but if you are a religious man, finding a church family would be a good place to start. I dont know if thats your thing, but with a good church is good people, most of the time. I have seen some of my friends, that have been divorced end up happy. Just an idea... If thats not an option, just try and get out and do things with your kids like the zoo or something. You might meet another single mom. I really dont have any ground to stand on, as I'm not married and also single.
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08-05-2008, 01:22 AM | #27 |
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So normally you see women who are single parents (which i give anyone who is a single parents props because i'm a single parent myself) but something i've noticed recently why is it a person who is a single parent can't seem to get a date no matter what they do (at least guy wise). Its just a little confusing to me i'm a 27 yr. old single father of twin boys but it seems like as soon as a woman finds that out......she runs the other direction like i just slaughtered her kitten. Can someone explain this to me please
Sounds to me like perhaps the type of woman you are attracted to is just not the maternal type. Maybe you could let some of your friends fix you up with a girl different than those you have dated in the past and who already knows you have three children. Just a thought. |
08-05-2008, 01:40 AM | #28 |
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I find this to be an interesting topic. I was at one time a signal father of 4 kids (3 girls and 1 boy) After I got custody I figured "OK my dating life is over and I'd be lucky to even get a one night stand" So I wasn't looking well after about a year that changed. I met a woman who (from what she told me) really didn't have a strong interest in me at first. As we starting talking more and of course I brought up the fact I have 4 kids. She starting thinking to herself that I must have something going on to get custody of 4 kids. I mean let's face it there are more single mothers than fathers. To make a long story short we ended up getting married and we are going on 6 years of marriage. My former boss and I were talking one day about kids (she's a single mom) and she was surprised that all 4 kids were from my first marriage. (BTW that seems to be a normal response when either I or my wife tell someone that) Her reply I thought was interesting "I wouldn't even give you the time day if you even had one kid, but I guess I'm a little more shallow than you wife" then she went on to say "I would like to meet the woman who is a better person than me to take on 4 kids" So yeah there's a lot of "baby momma drama" or "excess baggage", but (and you already know this) those kids come first. You'll meet that special woman they are out there, but they are just short packed. Just be patient don't force it. Good Luck
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08-05-2008, 01:43 AM | #29 |
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hahaha thats damn funny. anyways, i really couldn't tell you. someone will come along.
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