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06-27-2011, 12:37 AM | #11 |
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Damn Baroness-getting out of line again
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06-27-2011, 01:24 AM | #12 |
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Dude, you coulda bought me a Flagg and I woulda treated you the same way.
I won't make fun...I mean I already did but I wont anymore as I've made that mistake long ago. Next time, give it like 3 wks if nothing happens then, then she's not into you with feelings. So on the next date try to kiss her. If she backs up and refuses let her walk home. If she goes with it, take her hand and put it on your...stuff...and see what she does. If she goes with it, by all means have fun. If she backs up let her walk home. I mean you gotta get something out of it! SOMETHING!!.......Fuck, this just made me want to beat up my ex gf's bf. And that was like 4 yrs ago..THIS THREAD JUST PUT A KNIFE IN MY HEART!! cheers Quote:
This is gonna be harsh but, to sum it up: you can only blame yourself.
You said it yourself that it wasn't serious.....how can you even get mad at her? She moved on with her life and, since she wanted to invite you to the wedding, it sounds to me like she ended up just wanting to be friends and she cared enough about you as a friend to want to have you participate in her big day....I really don't think it was to shove anything in your face, I think it was to be honestly friendly (then again, I don't know her, but it doesn't seem like you guys had a bad falling out, it just seems like life went on) If she was playing you, that sucks, but I kinda don't think she was because people who do that don't normally invite their 'victim' to their wedding....they just get what they want and don't come back....so, yeah, I think maybe something happened along the way like you thought it was something it wasn't. I get that you liked her but did you actually TELL her? Anyone can buy things for someone, that doesn't mean it = a relationship of any kind. Perhaps she just thought you were being very friendly. Sorry this happened to you but, on the other hand, it isn't her fault. If you weren't serious with her, you can't blame her for moving on, and if she already had someone, well, dating isn't right at all.....but are you sure it was dating and not just a friends hanging out type of thing (with you)? She may have taken it that way....it sounds stupid but it happens. cheers bro.
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06-27-2011, 08:41 AM | #13 |
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06-27-2011, 10:13 PM | #14 |
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Why is it out of line? I am not being mean, I am just saying that she can't be blamed if it wasn't serious to begin with. Buying things for someone doesn't always mean something, relationship wise.....my male friends have gotten things for me (Transformers stuff, lol) and I buy them booze (they are old enough to get it, I just have an LCBO across the street from me so it is easy for me to just walk over and get it). That doesn't mean we are all in love....it's just a friendly gesture. I get that it isn't flowers or anything but I am trying to make a point that buying things for someone doesn't always mean you want something in return (like a relationship). She may have thought he was just being friendly, especially since they were not serious.
If you want someone, you gotta go for it. If you get rejected, whatever, you get over it. If you don't come right out and tell them how you feel, you can lose the chance and the next thing you know, they are getting married. Gotta be open and honest before you let a chance slip by. His post just made it sound like it was her fault and she is a bitch....but she isn't, she seems to have just thought he was a good friend.
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06-27-2011, 10:21 PM | #15 |
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06-27-2011, 10:25 PM | #16 |
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why is it out of line? I am not being mean, i am just saying that she can't be blamed if it wasn't serious to begin with. Buying things for someone doesn't always mean something, relationship wise.....my male friends have gotten things for me (transformers stuff, lol) and i buy them booze (they are old enough to get it, i just have an lcbo across the street from me so it is easy for me to just walk over and get it). That doesn't mean we are all in love....it's just a friendly gesture. I get that it isn't flowers or anything but i am trying to make a point that buying things for someone doesn't always mean you want something in return (like a relationship). She may have thought he was just being friendly, especially since they were not serious.
If you want someone, you gotta go for it. If you get rejected, whatever, you get over it. If you don't come right out and tell them how you feel, you can lose the chance and the next thing you know, they are getting married. Gotta be open and honest before you let a chance slip by. His post just made it sound like it was her fault and she is a bitch....but she isn't, she seems to have just thought he was a good friend. |
06-28-2011, 05:50 PM | #17 |
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Girls are strange. This is just pure speculation on my part, but chances are she already had a boyfriend and never told you about it. Anyway, she probably liked the attention you were giving her, and since you kept giving her attention and gifts without her having to give anything back to you, she let you continue on. Then she moved away. She led you on, dude.
I've had this happen to me before, and it sucks. Those kinds of girls know what they're doing. You give them the attention their boyfriends probably don't, and since you are giving it to them for free with no percieved pretext of a relationship, they can let it go on. Plus, they have no reason to leave their boyfriends when they have you on the side. They think they're doing nothing wrong, but they are. That's not to say a girl owes you something if you buy her a gift. Far from it. But at some point it does clue into them as to what your intent is. When they find out, the good girls will tell you to stop. The sneaky girls will let you keep doing it and will only confront you if you cross a line. Sorry you got used like that, but it is what it is. It's not completely on her though, cause you have to know when to stop. At some point, you need to just ask her, "Okay, what's up?" There are plenty of other girls; girls who live in your own country, your own town, with no intent to move away. I recommend going for those. |
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