no apologies necessary. those things happen. a topic about something alot of people hold so personal can really only end badly, but that doesn't mean it reflects anything bad on he participants. intention is always the key.
you guys talking about the aliens thread? I noticed it was gone, I was done trying to explain myself, I never seem to use the right wording in sensitive situations, was def. not trying to upset anyone, my apologies if I had anything to do with a thread being killed :(