the one thing i can tell you man is that once that level of trust is broken it can never be repaired. ever. you can stay together but you will always wonder in the back of your mind no matter what.
thanks man i really appreciate it. she has since left the house to think things through. do i give her that opportunity or is calling it quits the right thing to do? i know you dont know me or have real insight into my home life but i am looking for opinions.