|05-07-2008, 12:05 PM||#21|
Join Date: Feb 2008
We had a long talk the other day, and things are... ???, I guess. She decided she will go to a shrink Monday, and I'm going with her. Hopefully, we will be able to figure things out. At the very least, with all the words of encouragement and advice, I know that I have people on here who care, and can vouch that it isn't the end of the world if it doesn't work.
Thank you all.
|05-07-2008, 12:22 PM||#22|
Join Date: Sep 2007
if you can take a breath no matter how painful you will get by.a broken heart is never easy to take,GOD knows i have had a few,but it gets easier as the days go on.trust me.
|05-07-2008, 12:33 PM||#23|
I WILL BITE YOUR FINGERS!
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bridgewater MA
good luck man... i hope things work for ya...
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|05-07-2008, 12:40 PM||#24|
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: So. FL
I'm going to go ahead and sound like an a-hole and say this, knowing that is exactly what I sound like but it is the truth -
I know that's tough, but if you think this is tough now, try being married and having a family on top of that. Those two things WILL push you to and test your limits. If she's already out there now just with things as they are now and you're not married yet, run like hell b/c it WILL ONLY GET TOUGHER.
I'm not saying that b/c over 50% of marriges fail now or just b/c I'm on my second and it's not going well either. It's just the truth. Marrige is VERY hard and you have to have two people who are honestly happy together and WANT to be together to make it work. You're almost better off being more best friends and respecting each other as such first than you are lovers or man and wife.
I know I sound a little jaded and I guess I am two a certain extent, but honestly out of all the poeple I know that are married, and that includeds parents and family too, I can honestly say I really only know TWO couples (and I know a LOT of people) who are happy together and SHOULD be married.
My advice, don't do it, and it's the same advice I'd give my own boys. Not b/c I don't belive in it, but b/c I know it is so hard and unless you really are more best friends than anytihng else, there is NO way on earth it will work 9 times out of 10.
I know when this one is over I will NOT do this again unless I am friends first, and even then it had better be pretty good.
No one is ever going to care about you like you will or should except for your parents (hopefully), beyond that, you've got to look out for YOU first, unless you have kids, then that's a different story.
Beyond that, if she's already this screwed up, chances are marrige will ONLY make it WORSE.
Again, I know this hard to hear or understand, but I hope it helps.
Good luck -
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|05-07-2008, 11:44 PM||#25|
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: San Francisco
I hope this doesn't make me sound like a total d*ck, but while you do not think she will be better off without you, you sound like you'll be better off without her.
|05-07-2008, 11:49 PM||#26|
Join Date: May 2008
That's because he will be better off without her.
I dated a chick with psychological problems once, and it was the most draining relationship I have ever been in.
For one thing, you spend most of your time walking around on eggshells rather than acting like your normal self. You are disinclined to say how you really feel about any subject, and it sucks.
All this pent up frustration is usually channeled through alcohol or drugs for many people.
Not that Snake will become a drunk or a druggie, but many guys in his situation turn to that sort of thing to escape the draining experience.
Depression can also cause depression in the other person. Don't take it too harshly, but you are going to be better off without the depressed chick. She's just going to bring you down when you are trying to be upbeat about life. I know all about it. I am dating this chick who is moody as hell, and she sometimes has these negative emotions about everything. It's ANNOYING, and I am about an inch away from ditching her because she still cannot see how badly she wrecks my good moods.
PM me if you want to talk about this some more, Snake.
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