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01-03-2010, 10:11 PM | #1 |
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first off i would like to thank every one on helping make the right decision on what path i need to go down with her, if you miss it here a recap on what had happen.
http://www.hisstank.com/forum/genera...ght-wrong.html now here's what went down after , she call me yesterday morning with the same thing on how much she needs me, but she was getting depress when she got a text from the guy who i didn't know she was trying to date, and she read it to me and he just did nothing but curse her out, and call her names, i dint know if i should tell her how i felt . but i did, and come to find out she landed in the hospital trying to kill her self , i guess they got her to comedown and all but she keep calling me and for me to come down and see her and i was like no, i don't love you, but she was saying i do and i know somewhere in your hart you do to. she just don't get it,so she just keep calling me and i didn't answer it, finally getting tire of her call i told her look there's nothing between us no more so just move on, then she told me they moved her to a mental hospital, and she needs me more then ever, at this point i froze and dint know what to say.and she went on saying all her trouble and i was part of it do to i wont lover her. so i just put it up there and i hope i did the right thing with out trying to make her not go crazy. its over , it was over, just because we had lunch together doesn't mean were back together , she was like is that the way its going to be, and man she was crying, at the same time it was killing me, but i move on, and i said goodbye, again, i just pray that someone will take care of her, i just don't need to get in to that mess. so i think i did the right thing after all, |
01-03-2010, 10:14 PM | #2 |
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Yes, you did the right thing. Hard sometimes, but it was the right thing.
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01-03-2010, 10:39 PM | #3 |
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Jeez... It's going to take a lot before i ever say i'm having a bad day after reading this....
For what it's worth, i think you did the right thing... |
01-03-2010, 10:41 PM | #4 |
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You definately did the right thing. she needs to get her head straight before she is with anyone and you are wise to avoid her.
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01-03-2010, 10:46 PM | #5 |
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you def. did the right thing but Ive got to ask...
are you 100% she landed in the hospital? I only ask b/c I was duped by that once before as well. This girl I was somewhat involved with and I got into a fight the next day I have her cousin telling me she tried to commit suicide but then I found out it was all BS. I know its horrible to say but there are people out there that will lie about trying to kill themselves so that they can gain the sympathy of someone they think they love. For what its worth though, Im glad you stayed away. Just think.. had you gotten back together with her regardless of how you felt just think of the SH*T you woulda went through if you had gotten into a fight... too many hassles and no one needs that
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01-03-2010, 10:50 PM | #6 |
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wow, i'm sorry to hear this about her man. it really sucks wanting someone that don't want you back, we all been there from time to time. i just hope she can realize that it ain't the end of the world, it's just a feeling , and it will pass in due time.
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01-03-2010, 10:56 PM | #7 |
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hey man you definately did the right thing,sounds like her head is all over the place so shes in a place where she can get the right help,dont feel guilty either because it sounds like there are underlying issues there that you wouldnt have been able to address,and things would have got worse and worse until you were as messed up as she is,trust me mate iv been there,i had a really bad time with a girl i would have moved heaven and earth for,i stuck by her and gave 100% because i knew she had problems from her past,but eventually her self-destructive behaviour and blatant lack of respect for me became too much and i had to leave her,i felt so guilty but it was the only way and looking back i realised that i only made things worse by trying to be everything to her,sometimes you just have to put yourself first.
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01-03-2010, 10:58 PM | #8 |
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you def. did the right thing but Ive got to ask...
are you 100% she landed in the hospital? I only ask b/c I was duped by that once before as well. This girl I was somewhat involved with and I got into a fight the next day I have her cousin telling me she tried to commit suicide but then I found out it was all BS. I know its horrible to say but there are people out there that will lie about trying to kill themselves so that they can gain the sympathy of someone they think they love. For what its worth though, Im glad you stayed away. Just think.. had you gotten back together with her regardless of how you felt just think of the SH*T you woulda went through if you had gotten into a fight... too many hassles and no one needs that |
01-03-2010, 11:00 PM | #9 |
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well its unfortunate that she has wound up in this situation but very fortunate indeed for yourself that you didnt get back in.
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01-03-2010, 11:02 PM | #10 |
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Now just imagine had you let it go on, knowing how you felt and how she felt, even a week of the "lie" would have produced a reaction far worse then this.
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