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02-10-2010, 11:58 AM | #1 |
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Im ranting and raving this story in every possible format, because it feels good to get it off my chest. ARG.
So I dated this girl for 5 years. Lived together, things were great. I totally would have married this chick. But the last year of the relationship was strained; we moved far away from everybody I know, had a long commute, shes 24 and never had a license so I drove her everywhere...it just sucked. So that was starting to show and when it came time to move we just broke up. This was around last May. So we got back together a couple weeks after and started working on repairing the relationship. Well that is...I started changing my attitude and getting myself back together well she pretty much did nothing. Anyways. Were hanging out again, chatting, being intimate, etc. So our old neighbor from Laconia leaves a message on her Myspace, something to the effect of 'We should hang out some time'. I ask her about it, of course she says its nothing. So all this time goes by. Things seem okay, but she gets these fits of not talking to me, or throwing the fact I used to be a dick in my face. I just deal with it, because shes always going to come back and be normal again. Shes never acted like this before, so I think its a phase. But I told her multiple times...if you dont want me around or if youre seeing somebody else, then tell me and Im out. Of course she denies it all. Shes having a hard time finding work, and shes babysitting her family's kids for change, and deep in debt. So I dump a ton of money paying some bills for her, buying groceries, supplies, etc. I got her christmas presents, but didnt get any in return. So finally at the end of Dec, abruptly she just says she doesnt want to have a relationship with me. WTF? Yknow I turned myself around, paid more attention to her, helped out with her finances, did everything I could for her and WHAM. But still, few weeks later shes talking to me again and wants to hang out. Now Im pretty much sick of the roller coaster. She was reading through my facebook chatting about stuff I posted. I noticed hers was private and all locked up, so I sent her a friend request. Reminded her 3 times about it, and never got accepted. So what do I do? Well honey, you gave me your paypal info back when you wanted me to order you something on ebay. Guess what....its the same as your FB login. WHAM...shes been 'in a relationship' since october. WITH OUR OLD NEIGHBOR FROM LACONIA. I used to invite this douchebag over for beers, listen to him whine on and on about how he cant get a job and his life sucks...helped him move, took his cat so he wouldnt have to bring him to the humane society. And I have no doubt he hit her up when we broke up and smoozed his way in. So for pretty much half a year Ive been lead on, thinking we were getting somewhere, dumping money on her, and shes just lying to my face. Awesome. I wish I had suitable revenge planned, but I dont. This guy is a f*cking loser, and Im sure she'll get sick of him. But I sure as hell dont want her back. But if I ever see him Im gonna crush his skull. Beyond that, all I can do is make the best of it and make her realize she never deserved me. ARG. End rant. |
02-10-2010, 12:05 PM | #2 |
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Sounds to me like she is very manipulative and used your emotions against you to take advantage and get what she wanted. I guess it's easy for me to say as an outsider looking in but move on. She prolly has racked up a ton of debt again and needs you to help bail her out. Not worth it at all IMO. Good luck
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02-10-2010, 12:05 PM | #3 |
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Good lord...find a shotgun and...oh wait I'm daydreaming again.
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02-10-2010, 12:08 PM | #4 |
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02-10-2010, 12:09 PM | #5 |
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nothin like busting open the ex's/gf's secret world.
a few girlfriends ago... my now ex... had forgotten I knew her email password. turns out she made out with some guy on a cruise. i'm all for invasion of privacy. keep us posted on the revenge. hehehehhe.
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02-10-2010, 12:12 PM | #6 |
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I never liked having a girlfriend/relationship. Besides the sex I just don't see the fucking point to it all. Why should I do that? Just because everybody else does? I've never been the monkey see monkey do type.
Making me waste money on her, making me do shit I'm not interested in, telling me what I can & can't do, bitching about my friends etc. I don't see 1 single thing that's positive about a relationship besides sex. I don't want kids or to live with anybody so what's the friggin point? Single is the only way to go! I just don't understand why people put themselves through that. Last edited by Steelgrave; 02-10-2010 at 12:16 PM.. |
02-10-2010, 12:14 PM | #7 |
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Ive considered getting on her FB, changing the pw and just posting a huge rant about the situation. But I dont really know if thats the right thing. But its still in debate. I emailed that douchebag shes seeing telling him the whole deal, but he never wrote back. She probably lied the whole thing away.
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02-10-2010, 12:18 PM | #8 |
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Had a relationship somewhat similar.
Girl was from a town hours away and went to a U about an hour from me. Dated for months, but when spring break came she ran off with her ex to the beach. Crushed me. We got back together anyway, and she used me just to go on a trip with my friends. Done. Again. And we started talking again months later and she went full-court press for a ring. And I said hellz no. Split with her and never looked back. She got engaged to her ex about 1-2 mos after we split, then got preggars, dropped out of college, etc. Best thing that ever happened to me was losing her. Or leaving her. Whichever. The emotional attachment will fade, but you have to end contact with her. No "friends," no "friends with benefits." Nothing. And you will be much better off, man. And she won't.
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02-10-2010, 12:20 PM | #9 |
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Had a relationship somewhat similar.
Girl was from a town hours away and went to a U about an hour from me. Dated for months, but when spring break came she ran off with her ex to the beach. Crushed me. We got back together anyway, and she used me just to go on a trip with my friends. Done. Again. And we started talking again months later and she went full-court press for a ring. And I said hellz no. Split with her and never looked back. She got engaged to her ex about 1-2 mos after we split, then got preggars, dropped out of college, etc. Best thing that ever happened to me was losing her. Or leaving her. Whichever. The emotional attachment will fade, but you have to end contact with her. No "friends," no "friends with benefits." Nothing. And you will be much better off, man. And she won't. |
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