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01-10-2009, 03:39 AM | #1 |
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im not normally the type of person to share my personal life but i figured i would get some feedback from you all since i can get some different point of views. well my problem goes like this... i broke up with my girlfriend who i dated for almost 2 years. and when we broke up i was so relieved because are relationship had been over for monthes prior to us breaking up, we just were not getting along due to my joe collecting and other things and we basically just didnt speak to eachother.
anyway it has been 5 monthes since we have been broke up and truthfully i havnt really even thaught about her, like i wasnt depressed about are break up or nothing, basically i was glad to be done with it and move on, but i had to call her today for some things i needed from her and anyway she starts telling me how she has already had 3 b/f's since we broke up and how she is partying alot and meeting all these guys and i figured she was prolly telling this to make me jelous but come to find out she really is doing what she says. well anyway for the first time today in a long time i actually sort of missed her, i know that we are not good for eachother but i cant understand why im tripping over her today. i didnt tell her this or anything because i new she would just eat it up and try to make me regret are break up but this girl, when everything was good between us, was head over heals for me, i mean i remeber one time i tried to break up with her and she followed me all the way to my house and wouldnt leave untill i went back home with her. now she is acting like i never new her or something like she has changed so much. and i cant understand why she is acting this way towards me because i didnt call her to remaniss or anything liek that, i mearly wanted to grab some things from her and be on my way but she just had to try and rub in how great her life is now without me and i dont get why. does she really miss me and is feeling me out, or does she just want to make me jelous on purpose to be a awhole. im actually very confused at the moment and dont really know how to feel or what to do. this was the first time ive spoken to her in 5 monthes and she was really a jerk to me. but in a like "look what your missing kind of way." i hope this feeling will pass because im not really trying to get back with this girl but i do kind of miss her at this moment and im wondering if i feel this way just because she has moved on and i havnt dated anyone since are relationship. some feedback would be great, thanks guys.
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01-10-2009, 03:47 AM | #2 |
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Sounds like she's just screwing with you. She made you feel alone and desperate because she's living life, but it sounds to me like she's doing it to be mean...
Hold fast, step back and heed your own advice, you know what's best for you. Buy some new socks, get a different shampoo and deodorant, a hair cut and maybe some new shoes... all of that will take your focus off that girl and even though it's technically "stuff" it will help you feel better about yourself and it's cheaper in the long run.
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01-10-2009, 03:55 AM | #3 |
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5 months, 3 dudes come on if that's not a indicator of somethings wrong I don't know what is. Honestly you are the only one who knows her, is that the kinda chick you wanna be with. |
01-10-2009, 03:56 AM | #4 |
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yeah today has been a ruff day man, beside having to deal with my ex i went to my local comic store today and he had a fresh case of 12 and 13 which i already have but wanted a extra resolute trooper,blowtorch, and a PP crimson guard, and when the owner swipes my card it was declined because my account was overdrawn. i actually am quite bummed. so hopefully my joes will still be there tomorrow and thanks for the advice xerofall.
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01-10-2009, 03:58 AM | #5 |
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thats what is so odd about the whole thing, see she was never the type of girl to be like that, she was alweys very faithfull to me. i meen the main reason we broke up beside my joe obsession is because i wasnt ready to get married and have kids. she is 28 and i am only 24 so she is ready for the married life and i wasnt so it is really odd for her to tell me oh i already been with 3 dudes since we broke up, its messed up man.
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01-10-2009, 03:59 AM | #6 |
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Bro, even though you sent me a piss poor major bludd that got damaged when shipped because of poor packaging, when you could have asked me for more money for shipping after the fact in order to protect the card better, I still feel the need to help a brother out since we have all been there when it comes to women.
First off, what your feeling is not unique, I am sure there is not one person on the planet that has gone through a variation of what you described. Second, Guys usually feel relieved when they break up with a woman in the short term, and feel a little remorse later, because they get lonely or just haven't found anyone better. While woman get totally heartbroken, cry their eyes out for a while and move on. They are able to attract multiple guys, because face it we want to get laid, so they can go out on any given day and meet someone if they want. Now as far as her telling you all this, of course she wants to make you jealous. You rejected her, and her ego was damaged. Now she is trying to get back at you, it might not be malicious but its human nature, for the rejected party to behave like that. You have to ask yourself is it worth having exes in your life. I for one choose not to, because intimacy always clouds reason. Also, the best ways to get over her would be to be as successful and happy as you can. Maybe try hitting the gym to blow off some steam, go meet some new people, join a dating site etc....If its one thing I realized is the world is full of women and you will find one that is more compatible with you. I also suggest you mourn the relationship a bit, and really reflect on what went wrong because usually it takes two parties to turn a relationship sour. Since you mentioned the collecting was an issue, maybe ask some of the other guys here about their collecting and how their wives spouses handle it..... I hope that helps, and good luck with your situation. |
01-10-2009, 04:06 AM | #7 |
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Bro, even though you sent me a piss poor major bludd that got damaged when shipped because of poor packaging, when you could have asked me for more money for shipping after the fact in order to protect the card better, I still feel the need to help a brother out since we have all been there when it comes to women.
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01-10-2009, 04:06 AM | #8 |
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firefly069 im so sorry about your major blood man, i really do feel bad about that. but anyway thanks so much for the advice, you pointed out some very good things. my joe obsession was pretty bad there for a while and i got very carried away. one month i was suppose to sign back up for school with my money my grandma gives me for tuition and i blew a whole semesters worth of money on joes in less then 3 weeks. my g/f was pissed and so was everyone else in my family and this is when i new i had a problem. lol crazy times.
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01-10-2009, 04:13 AM | #9 |
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no worries bro, I mean if you would have shipped me a flagg like that I would have been unhappy but its not the end of the world....
Well, yeah one semester's tuition on joes sounds like a bit of a problem. People on this board mention, its my money I can do with it as I please. I still think you have to ask yourself when is a hobby something you get enjoyment out of and when does it become an obsession? That would make for a good discussion on this site. And no CaxxxFirefly it wasn't needed but I put it in there for laughs ;) |
01-10-2009, 04:18 AM | #10 |
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even i laughed man so no worries, but yeah trust me after spending a whole semester of money on joes my g/f sat me down and asked me what the heck was wrong with me, at the time i was collecting Arah and 25th so i had really gotten carried away, i just wanted to complete my rah collection and wasnt thinking about the big picture, but since then i have chilled out alot, i thinned it all out and only buy what i really want now. but my g/f had had enough and basically gave me a altamative, she said its either me or your joes. i chose my joes. =)
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