|10-11-2008, 09:45 AM||#31|
Ninja Force UK
Join Date: May 2008
well,for 3 years we have had the most amazing relationship-then this year leading up to our wedding we have argued non stop!! lol
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|10-11-2008, 10:05 AM||#32|
It's the right time
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Boston, MA
I made it 3 hours into the day with out a fight. Now i'm getting the silent stair of disapproval. Divorce Tank strikes again.
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|10-11-2008, 10:19 AM||#33|
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Hiding from the ROC Police
I fight with mine about twice a week. We always have lil fights like every day though
|10-11-2008, 10:27 AM||#34|
Join Date: Sep 2008
|10-11-2008, 10:36 AM||#35|
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Scottsburg, Indiana
Right now, my wife and I are sepparated. Not because of stuff between us but because she gets retarded sometimes about her family. I'm from Georgia and she's from Indiana. We just bought our first home back in December and I thought that it would stop all of her issues with missing her family. But, she went to Indiana on vacation back in June and didn't want to come back. Her family has some sort of magical hold on her that I don't understand. She came back but was gone again on July 18. Yesterday was 12 weeks that she's been gone and I miss my best friend. :(
The only thing that we ever really fight about is the whole family thing. We don't fight about money, my toy collecting (though she HAS slapped my hand a few times) or much else. Hell, we worked together at the same Walmart. Worked the SAME days and the SAME hours (mon-fri, 10pm to 7am off on weekends) and still didn't get on eachothers nerves that much. I'm a firm believer that if the man does right by the woman and is good to her that he should be the head of the household (even without kids). That was just the way I was raised. Also, spouses must make eachother the most important thing in their lives - not family, kids, jobs, money or anything else. This is hard for alot of people to do especially with kids. In the kind of world we live in though, kids NEED to see that kind of bond in parents. She was raised with her mom being the dominant parent and so she has issues with power. She had a chaotic childhood to say the least so I can understand why she is the way she is.
She has a problem putting me before her family and that's where all of our problems really stem from. She thinks that I'm asking too much. I think that she's not giving enough, since I put her first in my life. It's like a revolving door that we can't get past. I don't like the word divorce but at some point, when is enough REALLY enough? Yes, we could sell the house we have here and I could leave my life down here to be with her up there. But, would that really stop her from putting her family before me? How can I leave everything I have here to be with someone who can't make me #1? It would be like losing DOUBLE, ya know? Right now, I'd go for a fight over toys anyday rather than have to go through this hell...
Sorry to vent. I guess I just wanted to say (in a long drawn out way) that even though you men have your differences with your wives or girlfriends, thank God (or your god of choice) everyday that at least they're in the same state. Mine is 463 miles away...
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|10-11-2008, 11:00 AM||#36|
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Greensboro, NC
In the past two years, we've had 2 fights. and by "fights" I mean we had a disagreement, went to seperate rooms for a few hours and then everything was fine. Collecting doesn't come up often as she collects Star Wars figures. We have plans for a huge toy room with all of our toys
|10-11-2008, 11:09 AM||#37|
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: 100 miles east of Dallas,Texas USA
|10-11-2008, 11:42 AM||#38|
Join Date: Sep 2008
|10-11-2008, 11:57 AM||#39|
Win, Lose or Die
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Canton, Michigan
Being in a relationship is really all about compromise. There are thing that both of you do that may irratate each other, but sometimes you have to let things go. Everyone fights, because everyone is different. Nothing wrong with a disagreement now and again, it's all about the resolution. Sometimes people are just tired, and sometimes it's best to just give them space. No one is perfect, and relationships take work. You need 2 things: Love and Trust. Love is not enough. There has to be respect and trust as well, otherwise you are doomed to fail. I don't think you should fight every day, you need to figure out the root cause.
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|10-11-2008, 02:21 PM||#40|
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Assassination City, TX
sometimes when my besutiful wife is resting her weary head by slumbering peacefully on the couch...I fight the urge to donkey punch her.
that's a joke.
but she's a very good little subbie.
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