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redx24
03-10-2012, 08:48 PM
ok this is just me being a bit tipsy, lonely, idiotic and possibly looking for answers/ just putting shit out there alot of whats about to be put in here is more than enough to get my man card and hisstank membership banned. any whoo im an idiot, for the last 5 years ive been seeing a girl ( I'll call her A)that is just great. i mean everything is so simple with her. i don't have to go out spend time, money, hell i don't even have to be monagomous with her. we have great sex, she pays me to take care of her kids 2 hours aday 4 days a week. its $100. she has bought me and my famly gifts on holidays, her family even came over this last christmas. oh forgot she live only 3 houses away and we work in the same place. sounds great right? but still there's something misssing. now i'll tell about the other girl. ( call her R.) I have known R since high schoolo we met in church and started dating the first time back in 2000. we have been together and broken up several times in all this time. the latest was back in 2008. we have remained on good terms. we still hook up every so often. in all this time we have never bought each other gifts or had our familys meet up for anything not even a dinner just to chat.we have hung out mostly with only her friends/family. needless to say when im with her all free time has to be with her and she gets quite upset when i get called into work. This was the main reason we broke up this last time. its weird everything in me says stay with A get R out of my life, but its just like i said something about being with A just feels wrong. being with R is not always a walk in the park but i find that i feel more relaxed/free around her. deep down i know what i want but i know i may not find it with either if them but im lazy/scared to look for someone else. yea i hook up with girls when i can but the deep stuff i kinda shy away from. ok thats enough of my crap for now chime in if you want or don't. i won't mind but hell i would'nt get upset at any advise/crazyness u may think might help.

Headman
03-10-2012, 09:30 PM
Did you put your D in R's A?

redx24
03-10-2012, 09:55 PM
Did you put your D in R's A?

Several times a yeaar

Headman
03-10-2012, 10:03 PM
Several times a yeaar

Good.

OSOK
03-10-2012, 11:06 PM
i like this thread

redx24
03-10-2012, 11:17 PM
i like this thread

doomed to fail now

DaveViper
03-11-2012, 04:01 AM
I was OSOK hunting have you guys happened to see an OSOK in these parts?

redx24
03-11-2012, 04:09 AM
I was OSOK hunting have you guys happened to see an OSOK in these parts?

not since about 12 am man

DaveViper
03-11-2012, 04:25 AM
not since about 12 am man

Thanks, I got some bear traps and peanut butter in case I find the OSOK.

Good luck with your lady problems, married now but dated two girls that worked at walmart a couple years ago, one worked in the pharmacy and one worked in the diary section. The Pharmacy girl was married but going through a divorce they lived in separate cities and the other one had no ideal I was dating the pharmacy girl too. It got real crazy when the one girl found out about the other. Man I'm glad I'm done with all that crazyness, do miss the single life sometimes though :)

redx24
03-11-2012, 12:22 PM
lol thx man

GI FLINT
03-11-2012, 01:10 PM
this is not the first thread of an idiot.

manicmotive
03-11-2012, 01:10 PM
I would introduce R to A and see what happens.

redx24
03-11-2012, 01:20 PM
this is not the first thread of an idiot.

but it is the first thread of this idiot

redx24
03-11-2012, 01:21 PM
I would introduce R to A and see what happens.

they havemet but A dont know i still fuck R and R thinks A is a bitch!

manicmotive
03-11-2012, 01:31 PM
they havemet but A dont know i still fuck R and R thinks A is a bitch!

I think you need to introduce B into the equation. B equals booze.

R+A+B=good time for redx

Then if A is as lax as you say she is she should still stick around.

R might leave but at least it saves you the trouble of having to decide.

Plus R might come back around in the near future if I read the story correctly.

redx24
03-11-2012, 02:18 PM
lol when R always returns. A is open minded to alot of things but it takes a whole lot to get her there in the first place im better off getting R and another chick in the room together

DaveViper
03-11-2012, 02:53 PM
lol when R always returns. A is open minded to alot of things but it takes a whole lot to get her there in the first place im better off getting R and another chick in the room together

Could we give them fake name like Debby and Brooke, Im trying to complete the fanatsy here and R and A isn't working :D

Whoever said get Brooke and Debby together (name change) is a genius let them sort it out over, you make pop corn and sit back and enjoy. Beer as mentioned could help too.

And You should probably not listen to me I sucked at keeping girlfriends back in school.

Good luck man

redx24
03-11-2012, 02:54 PM
fine A= mayra R= melissa ok??

DaveViper
03-11-2012, 03:08 PM
fine A= mayra R= melissa ok??

Good names :)

Just having a little fun, spam section? But I can see I will not be adding anything of value so I will leave this to the professionals,
again good luck man

manicmotive
03-11-2012, 11:25 PM
My 2 cents. My REAL 2 cents. When juggling two women you will most likely end up with neither. Whether it be them finding out about each other, you getting too emotionally invested one way or another, or shit just fizzling out, there will always end up a sad and lonely redx. Best thing you can do here is end the relationship that makes you the MOST uncomfortable and pursue the other. Now should you decide to make that longterm or just a bridge to something more sustainable is up to you. Just get out of the juggling rut. It always ends poorly. ALWAYS.

Clobbertron
03-11-2012, 11:31 PM
First post was too long so I skipped it. I'm assuming its about anal sex or something?

redx24
03-12-2012, 12:27 AM
First post was too long so I skipped it. I'm assuming its about anal sex or something?

a little bit

OSOK
03-12-2012, 07:23 AM
eatin aint cheatin

redx24
03-12-2012, 10:34 AM
tell that to my friend that the herpes from some chick he ate while his wife was preggars

OSOK
03-12-2012, 10:35 AM
*pukes*

redx24
03-12-2012, 04:29 PM
true story